11 things every girl and guy should take away from the movie "He's just not that into you"

I'm not going to lie, I may or may not have seen this movie 3 times in theaters and 4 times on demand, but it encouraged some very blunt, yet true mentalities. Although the movie was directed towards girls, I think guys could learn a thing or two from the film as well. Because lets be honest girls...we are not very good at coming out and saying "I'm just not that into you."

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#1. (See the image above- This is true for girls to guys as well)

#2. When someone in a relationship or marriage tells you they are going to break up with their significant other for you, 9 times out of 10 it won't happen... they are just buying themselves time.

#3. One of the very first quotes in the film..."A girl will never forget the first guy she likes."

#4."So trust me when I say if a guy is treating you like he doesn't give a shit, he genuinely doesn't give a shit. No exceptions." -Justin Longs character Alex

#5. Boys..when you start getting excuses like the one below, run. 

#6. If a girl or guy doesn't call or text you, they don't want to call or text you.

#7. Most people don't actually change, and if they really do...they are the exception to the rule. 

#8. If a girl or guy is rude to you and are currently out of Kindergarten, that does not mean they like you. And it is especially not an invitation to be overly persistent. 

#9. If someone makes up their mind about how they feel about you, no words or forms of logic can be used to change their mind. 

#10. Justin Long: "Men don’t forget how much they like you. So put down the phone." 

#11. If a girl or guy wants to see you, they will, no excuses.